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| Surviving the holidays |
| Is it just me or is the holidays so tough? I mean i dont hate the holidays, but honestfully i find myself saying "ba humbug". Last year this time he had proposed to me so i keep flashing back to that. I'm not trying to but it happens, I want nothing than to be over him. I've been reading the articles and trying my best, i told him i did not want to talk to him about anything except our child, and only when necessary, after that he has managed to call me to ask the stupidest question, He called to ask me if i would be there to get my son, sometime i feel like saying the nerve of him. He cheated on me and i just dont understand, i feel like there must of been something wrong with me. For him to go some where else. I dont even feel like i am worth anything anymore. We were together through three years of hell in my life, we went through allot for three years. I just feel like holidays suck, it was when everything happened. I'm sorry i just had to get that out. |
| By : Kila : Female |
| Date/time : 13/12/09 10:44:09 |
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Leah |
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Female |
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Holidays can really be hard and in your case you were going through a break up during the holidays. So this is a trigger for you bring back emotional, all the bad times you had with this relationship. This is normal until you heal and completely over him and to start I would cut all contact and speak to him only about your child nothing else. This will help you to move on in the mean time just go wit the flow of your emotions. This is also a great time to reach out to others and start new holiday traditions for you and your son. |
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15/12/09 19:15:27 |
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