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| I'm not sure how to move past some things that literally keep me up at night. I have tried dating to no avail. I have tried to block it out, only to have it come back louder (metaphorically). It's only been a few months but it still feels so fresh. Patience is important I know. But, it sure would be nice to talk to someone who is or has been in my shoes. |
| By : Feeling alone : Male |
| Date/time : 04/01/10 01:00:36 |
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kris |
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i feel for you...i was dumped after 15 yrs. trying to make a loser better himself yo no avail. want to talk my e-mail is wolflover844@yahoo,com |
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04/01/10 18:00:22 |
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mnail |
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Cool thing about being lost, you posted and people found you - give yourself the time it takes to say good bye, kindly, wholly and softly with deserved respect that your emotions deserve. It pays off in the end and simply makes you a better and more energetic person.
Best!! |
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05/01/10 08:00:33 |
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Debbie |
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It's only been a few months for me too and there is much confusion. But also I am learning alot about myself during this whole process. And it is a process. I let myself "feel" everything that came up. I didn't block the pain or the thoughts. I let it all wash over me each and everytime. There was no going "around" I had to go "through" |
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19/01/10 22:13:36 |
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Robin |
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I know where you are coming from. Was dumped after 26 years of marriage and 5 dating. It has been 3 months and I still find myself having meltdowns that I wish would just go away. I am finding that it is not the missing of him actually it is the loneliness that I can not put up with. How do you get over this? Sometimes it makes me so crazy I just want to not be here. I would never do anything because I have to wonderful daughters. The problem is that one lives away and the other is in college. If anyone has any suggestions on how to get past the loneliness please let me know. |
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21/01/10 15:42:10 |
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