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| I'm 26years old, my ex-partner and are not yet married and we have a 1yr old son. He's drug dependent and always lashes out everything on me. he's not content for who I am and always tells me that i need to have a strong personality like him, because I'm a "softy".
every time we argue he always tells me that he the one paying for everything that's why i need to be nice to him except that he's not actually paying for everything his parents are. I'm fed up with his attitude and the way he treats me but i still have feelings for him, but my baby and I are already out of the condo we used to live in.
Here's the catch, two weeks before we got separated, my ex of 10years contacted me, he told me he still loves me till now and is willing to support my baby and i. I'm scared to trust but I feel I need to decide for the welfare of my baby. I can;t raise my baby alone, and I want my baby to have the best of everything, so I entertained him, and we're still communicating until now.
My ex-partner the father of my child, knew about my affair(the affair was only through phone because my ex boyfriend and I live in different countries) and said i was a cheater but he still wants us to get back together. I'm scared but I also want whats best for my baby. |
| By : Anmaria : Female |
| Date/time : 05/03/10 11:17:29 |
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Carla |
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Are you a user also but maybe on a lesser scale? Does he have any desire to quit doing drugs? Or to change his behaviours? Have you considered counselling? I don't think you can consider it "an affair" if all you did was talk over the phone! |
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05/03/10 23:30:11 |
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Java |
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You can raise that baby as it is better to do that than be with a drug addict you can't change. Try to find some social networks at church and in your area. You need to gain some self confidence so I'd suggest talking to a Minister or a Counselor. They can help tremendously.
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06/03/10 17:21:37 |
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leah |
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You need to stand on your own two feet and become independent and do what you need to do to support yourself and your child. Going from relationship tp relationship is not healthy for you or your child. What happens when you break up with the new man? You are back at square 1 looking for someone to take care of you.
You can give your baby the best by loving and caring for yourself and the child. After you have lived on your own and healed, and become independent then think about another relationship.
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09/03/10 21:35:43 |
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